Pregnant for a married man

Okay, this sounds like a super messy drama on one of those TV shows my mom watches. First of all, he’s married, which means he’s already a liar and a cheater. Did you really think he was going to leave his wife for you? Guys like that always say they will, but they rarely do because they are cowards who want to have their cake and eat it too.

You need to stop relying on this guy because he is never going to choose you. He made vows to someone else, and he’s breaking them, which means his word means absolutely nothing. You have to think about the baby now and stop letting him manipulate you. It’s time to face the reality that you are in this alone, at least when it comes to him.

Make a plan for yourself and your child that doesn’t include him, because he’s proven he can’t be trusted. Maybe get a lawyer to figure out child support so he has to legally help take care of his kid, but don’t wait around for him to magically become a good person. You made a mistake, but now you have to be strong and fix it for your baby’s sake.