Mama’s boy doesn’t want a woman with kids
Ew, a mama’s boy is the worst. It’s so cringe when a grown man still acts like he needs his mom’s permission for everything. If he doesn’t want a woman with kids, that’s his choice, but it’s super hypocritical if he still acts like a child himself. He basically wants a servant who will take care of him just like his mommy does, which is gross.
Be glad he showed his true colors now before you got even more attached to him. You don’t want to deal with a guy who runs to his mom every time you have an argument. That would be like dating two people, and one of them is always going to be his mom. You have kids, and you need a grown-up partner, not a boy who needs to be parented.
Drop him and don’t look back. You are a strong mom who is doing a great job raising your kids, and you deserve a man who respects that. Any guy who is intimidated by a woman with kids isn’t man enough for you anyway. Let him go back to his mom’s basement and find someone who actually has their life together.